GET OUT OF LIFE. I am NOT ‘Yours’ nor will I ever be ‘Yours’ I am not something you can have! “Wanted an asian girl”-Do you have a fucking list of women from various cultures you would like to ‘have’ ?! Do you think that is a compliment?! You blushing?! You should be! You should rolling up in a ball because you just said something incredibly stupid! Or because I’d be kicking you! How DARE you diminish the fact that I am a HUMAN BEING not something you can have. Or diminish the fact that women everywhere have been deemed to be objects of men’s ownership which is wrong on so many levels…It’s 2014 dude, WAKE UP!-Not that you’d be waking up to a world full of peace and equality…but you’d at least SEE the movement of feminism rising and how it NEEDS to be part of everyone’s mindset as it is HEALTHY and not destructive like your current way of thinking about women. I bet your idea of an “Asian girl” is a mixture of ALL countries of Asia and all the various cultures within that huge continent…which I find upsetting! All you BELIEVE TO KNOW about Asia comes from shitty movie ‘representation’ (I wouldn’t even call it representation). There are different countries in Asia which means there are different values/beliefs/religions/cultures/PEOPLE. …Please read a book about the history of Korea, the history of it’s people, of it’s women, the history of women in this very country and maybe you will learn WHY you are wrong for saying that. Because you ARE WRONG and it is matter of time and learning until you realize why. Asian women are not ‘things you can have’ you sick fuck, that is a fetishized fantasy you have of an entire group of people that are all incredibly different and unique to one another.
I encounter this an ungodly amount of times. Where I introduce myself to new people (specifically men) and they ask what my ethnicity/race is, (because I maybe I obtain some physical features that may make it slightly apparent that I may not be totally Caucasian?) and once I say “I am half Korean…” either the response is “I’ve always wanted to be with an Asian chick/I can see it in your eyes/I always had a thing for Asian girls/You’re a cute little Asian girl” -Uhhh first of all, I am not small by any means, I could kill you with my thighs of steel yo, and secondly…WHAT THE FUCK?! I used to not get so worked up about this before, it made me uncomfortable, but not angry. But now I am angry because this is a real issue that emiliaclarkesfuturewife has made me aware of (even though she totally didn’t realize). Women from Asia, and Asian-American women have to deal with scumbag people who merely see them as a fantasy of obedience/submissiveness and ‘exotic’-ness rather than a race/ethnicity/culture/group of beings with YEARS of history both good and bad and all worth learning about (which may help you realize that certain individuals/groups do not like having a generic label of “Asian” because of reasons within history and do not like being grouped with other individuals/groups within that large continent…which I am still trying to figure out where I stand on that thought)
LEAVE FOOL. You have a Frankenstein sized forehead that is clearly empty! And Frankenstein had a dead person’s brain and heart and EVERYTHING and was still a better person than you and HE WASN’T REAL. BUT YOU ARE!-REAL STUPID THAT IS.
If I offended anyone by what I said from my own being offended (expect that dude cause I don’t care about his life) I apologize and this is a REAL ISSUE that bothers me and in the heat of the moment + the fact that I personally am still very new to learning about this particular issue I may have said something not totally OKAY. If somebody made you feel less of a human because of your race/ethnicity/cultural background/the values & beliefs you practice/your gender/your sexuality identity/your appearance/your feelings & emotions/and more- then that’s plenty of reason to call someone an ass.